When we are dealing with bondages of our mind, one of them is ‘I Cannot Attitude’. This has limited many people and business out there. The research seems to agree that the child is born with normal self-esteem and self-confidence. The child knows that by crying will get everything desired. The child is born a positive-thinker with an ‘I Can Attitude’
As the child grows, studies shows that 80% to 85% have lost that self-esteem and self-confidence and develops self-doubts and began to have ‘I cannot attitude’. This occurs because of negative households, negative attitude in teaching processes, negative attitude of the world, etc. To bring that child to a normal health and positive metal attitude may look difficult but we CAN.
Little negative influence of the past rules us for the whole of our lives. Human beings can alter their life by altering their attitudes. The principal use of our bodies is to carry brains around and the brain is what we are. Brain is the set of mind; mind differs as human beings are created in the image of God. It is our minds that cripple us or energize use. The reason why ‘I cannot attitude ‘is so familiar nowadays is because it has become an excuse to duck challenges.
Many people struggle with their self-confidence. The ‘I cannot attitude’ has probably stopped more people from living full, happy life than any other major disease. I cannot stop smoking, I cannot get out of debts, I cannot make it in my job. How many times you have heard people pronouncing that excuses. In most cases it was not smoking, debts or job problems, it just an ‘I Cannot Attitude’
If you can overcome the crippling ‘I cannot attitude’ which is blocking our minds there is really no limits towards we can achieve or accomplish. We need to develop an effective mechanism to destroy the ‘I Cannot Attitude’